This is for everyone, really, not just folks in creative industries.
I frequent many gatherings and events and meet a lot of folks, which usually involves an introduction that begins with a handshake. Being a germaphobe I don't really like handshakes, but do feel that they're necessary, and always try to give the best when I do shake hands. It just feels like a great way to initiate a conversation with someone new.
One of my biggest pet peeves: limp handshakes, which often feel un-welcomed or unintended from the other party.
There are tons of studies about it, and the phenomena has probably been discussed somewhere in business magazines and articles, so I'm sure there are all kinds of resources on a why a good handshake is important. So no need to bore you with theory. Instead, I thought I'd share why it's important for me to give a good one.
I like to give good handshakes because:
1. It's a great way to be present and command attention. We all bring something of value to any space we occupy. A good firm handshake is a great way to remind ourselves of this and to make sure the other person is aware of that energy, too.
2. It's a moment to acknowledge the other person. I love the basic tip: shake the hand firmly and look 'em in the eye. Kind of like in the film Avatar, where the Na'vis from the planet Pandora, greeted one another with the statement, "I see you," as they take a moment to look in the eyes of the other person. Here on planet earth, it's a simple way to remember that no matter who you're meeting, on a very basic level, we are all human beings. We should always acknowledge that fact, and a good handshake is great way of doing so.
3. It's a great way to make a good first impression. The first two can really be rolled into this reason. It sucks that we can be really amazing people but that a first impression can make for missed opportunities or bad experiences. But in this standard western greeting, that's just how it is. Therefore, knowing this allows us to be prepared when starting an introduction with the intention of being great — even if it's for a fleeting moment. Because in every moment we should always be awesome and a lame, disingenuous, limp, finger-only handshake is not the best we can do.
Those are my thoughts. What are your experiences? Are you aware of your handshake? Does it matter to you if you give or receive a bad handshake?
This delicious collection from Tata Naka is blowing me away! Most of the AW 14/15 interiors inspired designs are covered in boldly mixed bold prints and photographed with a patterned wall and floor as a backdrop. It's so beautiful and inspiring. I'm adding the photos, shot by Becky Maynes, to my mood-board immediately.
The other day, ok yesterday, I discovered soulster MNEK when AfriPOP posted some beautiful screen-grabs from the singer's latest music video "Wrote A Song About You." When I played the video my creative neurons started jumping all over the place. The graphic animations and colors are gorgeous! The animation is like the opening of Saved By the Bell married the opening credits to In Living Color, had a baby, and named it Keith Haring 2.0. Oh, and I dig the song, too! Check it out and let me know what you think.
Exciting news: in the fall I will be continuing my career in design education as a fulltime instructor at Maryland Institutie College of Art (MICA). With that, about a month ago I was invited to visit the senior thesis exhibition at MICA to see the caliber of work the students are doing. I was blown away by everything and left feeling even more excited and inspired.
21 Guns was a senior thesis project that really stood out during my visit. Starting with a reflective lens on her own life, this project by Nina Q. Allen resulted in a poster series honoring various women in pop culture. I love what she has to say about 21 Guns:
"A 21-Gun Salute is one of the highest military honors. My 21-Gun Salute pays homage to women's rights, highlighting the beliefs in the political, economic and social equality of the sexes. My design emphasizes beauty, diversity, & femininity through bold type, imagery and color. The use of music has also been influential to my design process, as direct lyrics are utilized to assign a specific misperception given to each iconic woman. 21 GUNS is an autobiographical journey into womanhood, individualism, and artistic expression."
The scale of these posters (at 21"x37") and bold colors in duo-tone and tri-tone will stop you in your tracks and pull you in to read the copy. I immediately fell in love with the series and started imaging how I could get a copy of the Grace Jones poster to hang in my studio.
Check out all the posters right here.